Poor me, right?

Hi , goodness, I think there are quite a few people in this community who can relate to family and friends having a hard time understanding how life with MS can be sometimes. You are amongst so many people here who definitely get it though. I'm really glad to hear you're working with the IT team still, Todd. How has that been going? I totally get that it might not have physical demands but fields, especially those like IT, can be quite mentally taxing with the amount of concentration you have to put forth. I hope you are giving yourself some patience and kindness after those long 8 hour days. Thinking of you and sending lots of love! 🧡 Warmly, Kayleigh, MultipleSclerosis.net team

Hi . You are not at all alone. People have a hard time comprehending what they can't see. If they can't see obvious physical evidence of your weakness, fatigue or pain, it can be difficult for them to empathize. Have you considered sharing some of our articles them? Here is a wonderful article about MS fatigue that might help: https://multiplesclerosis.net/living-with-ms/things-wish-people-knew-ms-related-fatigue. We have so many other articles about all aspects of MS. You could also invite family members to attend doctor appointments with you and ask the doctor to explain some of these issues. Many people have difficulty hearing this kind of information from people they love. There is too much emotion involved. They have an easier time absorbing it when it comes from a third party. I hope this helps and that, overtime, your family will develop more empathy and compassion. Thinking of you. - Lori (Team Member)

Hi mtoddh sad to hear you are struggling a bit atm. Have you made any diet changes to get your ms back on track?