Has MS Altered Your Driving Habits?
If you’re still able to drive, has your MS created any issues that have forced you to make adjustments as to how/when/where you drive? If so, what problems have you faced, when did you first notice the problems, and what changes have you implemented for safe driving?
Here are some of the changes I’ve had to make with driving :
I rarely drive at night due to the glare of oncoming headlights affecting my eyes. I rarely drive in inclement weather unless an emergency. Also, I don’t do long distance, nor do I drive on freeways, multi lane highways, or in heavy traffic(rush hour) because of severe depth perception issues and sensory overload.
What are some of your driving restrictions?
@Mary Pettigrew this are all such important questions and topics to discuss in our community. Thanks for opening up the conversation.
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Alene, moderator
you know that on this particular forum, it is NEVER "just you!" This is one of those snowflake diseases where your snowflake and my snowflake look remarkably alike, for all their individuality.
Love, Therry, a Team MemberThank you so much Alene!! I’m glad to see so many people adding their comments and experiences on this forum!
~ Mary Pettigrew (team member) 🧡🎗️🧡
I may not be the best example as I am still recovering from what I assume was a flare (I was recently diagnosed a month ago but likely had it for a while). However, since I have to wear an eye patch when driving, I currently avoid any on ramps and tend to drive slower to help the brain process everything. I am always hesitant as I fear that I am going to sideswipe vehicles in my blind spots.
For myself the biggest change with driving is I have lost the ability to keep mental track of vehicles beside and behind me. Before this last spell that I am going through, I was able to mentally track about 3-4 cars on both sides of me.I live in a rural community which makes local errands easy however I sometimes am required to go to large communities. I make sure I know where I am going and know that some people are not happy with my slower driving. I tell anyone with me that I have to pay attention and avoid distractions. that's wonderful that your local community is really conducive for you to get around and complete your errands. I also like your approach to clearly communicating how you need to navigate larger communities. It's important that you keep yourself safe and it sounds like you're having the conversations you need to do so.
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Alene (team member)
MS has caused me to have high anxiety to driving. I will only drive a limited area/range from home. I can't even drive myself to my Neurologist appointment because her location is outside of the range. The anxiety is not limited to me driving, it is in high gear when I'm a passenger as well.
I'm sorry to hear that you're experiencing anxiety, especially when you're in a car - whether driving or as a passenger. Do you have a family member or friend help out on the days that you don't feel comfortable driving or need to get your neurologist?
That's a great idea to have a specific range that you stay within. It's helps to keep you safe, and also has a clearly defined limit.
Regarding the anxiety, have you found anything that helps to ease it? Even something like breath work or essential oils, they might not eliminate but could they help you to feel a little better in the moment? Or have you had an opportunity to talk with a therapist about the emotions before. Many people in this community have found therapy to be incredibly valuable. Either way, I hope you know that we're sending you lots of virtual support and encouragement.
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Alene, moderator
Alene, for about ten years, I had at least one accident a year. I took driver retraining and discovered that I really didn't know how to drive. The retraining helped for about a year. When we moved to our new town for our retirement, I had an accident within about two months, and at that point, I said, "Oh the hell with this, I am getting off the road before I hit somebody!" I'm happy to say our new city is very walkable, things are easy to get to, and my husband is happy to do the driving. I did take it personally when they more or less gave up on autonomous cars, however.
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I am so sorry for your loss.
Sending many hugs, Doreen (Team Member)
so sorry that the CA monster took your partner. Getting ride shares is a good option if you can get them when needed. Also, I've found in between insurance covered rides and self-paid rides I can get most places; just need to remember to have small bills (cash) on hand for tips. I've learned that it makes it possible to give drivers a tip since you don't get that option when you are not paying for the ride. Recently, my dental office was able to reinstate free rides with the receipt of a grant. Now there's no excuse not to follow through on dental care. lol PS: I keep trying to remember that now I don't have to pay for car maintenance, car insurance, and gasoline. This gives me wiggle room to pay for rides. The insurance benefit helps. And my motto: It never hurts to ask! Best Wishes!
